Penn Badgley & Blake Lively End 3-Year Relationship

Hold on to yourselves. Are you sitting? Good. It seems that a rep has confirmed that Gossip Girl stars Penn Badgley and the Jackie O. of our time, Blake Lively, have ended their three-year romance. Grab a tissue. Let’s cry through this together.

The couple ended their relationship mid-September but have kept it pretty low-key, staying private about the breakup. A source told Us Weekly that the duo are still good friends and hang out on the set of their show together.

“Nobody on set had any idea,” says the insider. “They’re really just private.” Well, I’m glad they aren’t causing a major ruckus and both probably realize that their breakup could cause major havoc on that set if they didn’t act maturely.